I have been married to an anesthesiologist for 15 years his 2nd marriage. Some say, they love wearing it, it gives them "protection from evil". Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids. Calls during thanks giving and Christmas makes me really upset. I do not see this going well. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. Simply tell him that you feel like your relationship is stagnating, and you'd like to talk about where it is going.
Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. How do you really feel about that. What can I or your spouse do to make my spouse feel more important besides not being a physician. The pressure is mounting for Mormon women to cave in to Western degeneracy, and men are at a loss for what to do about it. This one is different. Know her limits on substances. I get to experience the joys of his culture, which I never would have known otherwise. Nor was there a lack of compassion or respect.
She said we couldn't watch it because the lady who produced the doc was formerly a professor at BYU but has since left the church, so she wouldn't have anything good to say. And on my part, I felt I needed to go out and live harder, party more, be more social, etc. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. This does not mean that you cannot do those things, but remember that she will not be able to do them with you.
Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. I can honestly say we have grown apart thru the years. However, for me, there have been some perks too.